Where We Come From Valerie and I met over a decade ago; while going to school at UVU in Orem, Utah. She was a ballroom dance major, and I took some dance classes and competed ballroom dance on a local level as a way to relax from my pre-med classes. I was seven and a half years older than her and so I didn't think much of it when we first met, since she was just out of high school. But, over time, we got to know each other better and, after two and a half years, we got married. Since that point she's followed me across the country and back again a couple of times, as we've moved from Utah to southern California, back to Utah, then Michigan, then northern California, then off to Vermont. During that time we've been blessed to have three kids, all born in different states, and made a lot of good friends and good memories. Initially, this was because of medical school, then residency, but finally it was for work. Our initial attempt at a job fell through and ...